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发表于 12-1-2008 01:08:00|来自:新加坡
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">☆一次只担心一件事情。</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";"><br/>
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</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">女人的焦虑往往超过男人。哈佛大学的研究人员对</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">166</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">名已婚夫妇进行了</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">6</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">个星期的研究</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">发现了因为女人们更爱方方面面地考虑问题</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">所以女人们比男人更经常感到压力。她会考虑自己的工作、体重</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">还有每个家庭成员的健康等等。</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";"><br/>
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</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">☆每天集中精力几分钟。</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";"><br/>
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</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">比如现在的工作就是把这份报告打好</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">其他的事情一概抛在脑后</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">不去想。在工作的间隙</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">你也可以花上</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">20</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">分钟的时间放松一下</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">仅仅是散步而不考虑你的工作</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">仅仅专注于你周围的一切</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">比如你看见什么</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">听见什么</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">感觉到什么</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">闻到什么气味等等。</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";"><br/>
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</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">☆说出或写出来你的担忧。</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";"><br/>
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</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">记日记</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">或与朋友一起谈一谈</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">至少你不会感觉孤独而且无助。美国的医学专家曾经对一些患有风湿性关节炎或气喘的人进行分组</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">一组人用敷衍塞责的方式记录他</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">
</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">们每天做了的事情。另外的一组被要求每天认真地写日记</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">包括他们的恐惧和疼痛。结果研究人员发现:后一组的人很少因为自己的病而感到担忧和焦虑。</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";"><br/>
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</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">☆暴力减压</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";"><br/>
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“</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">随身带个小皮球郁闷时偷偷捏一捏。</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">”</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">美国一个专为男性白领排忧解难的服务网站建议。随身携带一个网球、小橡皮球或是什么别的,遇到压力过大需要宣泄的时候就偷偷地挤一挤、捏一捏,显然要比掐同事的脖子、在大家目瞪口呆之下歇斯底里地撕废纸、捶桌子要好得多。</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";"><br/>
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</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">☆不管你有多忙碌</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">一定要锻练。</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";"><br/>
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</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">研究人员发现在经过</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">30</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">分钟的踏脚踏车的锻炼后</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">被测试者的压力水平下降了</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">25%</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">。上健身房</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">快走</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">30</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">分钟</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">或者在起床时进行一些伸展练习都行。</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";"><br/>
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</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">☆享受按摩的乐趣。</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";"><br/>
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</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">不只是传统的全身按摩</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">还包括足底按摩</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">修指甲或美容</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">这些都能让你的精神松弛下来。</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";"><br/>
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</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">☆放慢说话的速度。</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";"><br/>
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</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">也许你每天的桌上摆满了要看的文件</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">你的右手在接听电话</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">左手还要翻看资料。你要应付形形色色的人</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">说各种各样的话。那么你一定要记住</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">尽量保持乐观的态度</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">放慢你的速度。</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";"><br/>
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</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">☆不要太严肃。</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";"><br/>
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</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">不妨和朋友一起说个小笑话</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">大家哈哈一笑</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">气氛活跃了</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">自己也放松了。事实上</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">笑不仅能减轻紧张</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: 宋体;">还有增进人体的免疫力的功能。</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";"><br/>
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